Before I started The Loveumentary podcast, launched a successful Kickstarter, gave a TEDx talk, or created a Date-in-a-Box subscription business for couples... I was just a guy who didn't want to suck at love.
Actually, I always had the dream of getting married and being the most awesome husband and dad ever.
I wanted my wife to love me so much, she'd brag about me to her friends. I wanted my kids to know I loved them... and constantly roll their eyes at my awesome dad-jokes.
Then, after over a decade of failed attempts at real love - and I mean totally sucking it up - I started to ask myself some important questions. If you're like most people, you've probably asked some of these questions too...
"Why do some people have AWESOME marriages, and other people have marriages that look like a jail sentence?"
"How do I make sure my marriage ends up better than my parents marriage?"
"What do I need to do to have a marriage so good we never even talk about divorce?"
"Is the stuff we argue about normal?"
"Sometimes I feel super anxious... does that mean we should break up?"
"How often should we be having sex?"
"What does it mean when people say that marriage is 'Hard Work'?"
"What am I supposed to do when I'm not "feeling it" anymore?"
If you've asked yourself similar questions, you're in the right place!
In the last several years, I've traveled the United States hunting down the answers.
I've interviewed over 100 couples who are madly in love with each other and learned enough incredible lessons from them to write a novel (working on it).
I've talked to some of the most respected researchers, therapists, authors, and professors about the psychology, physiology, sociology and biology of love.
I've attended workshops, read books, taken classes, gone to therapy and spent thousands of hours completely immersed in this stuff...
I even got married, and am testing all this cool info out on my wife to make sure it really works. (Hi Ang!)
And now I've made it my life's mission to share everything I've learned with YOU!
You see, I'm a firm believer that most people suffer from a disease I like to call "Mediocre Love." And what's worse... they're COMPLETELY oblivious to it.
Here are some of the symptoms: Having the same conflicts over and over again without ever reaching a resolution, infrequent sex, sex with the lights off or eyes closed, rare make out sessions, lack of adult friends, consistent making and breaking of promises, life completely revolves around children, absence of marriage goals, absence of marriage mentors, feelings of loneliness, Netflix is the only regular "us" time, frequent nagging, complaining, criticizing, emotionally shutting down... and diarrhea.
Does this sound creepily familiar?
No need to feel guilty. The reason this epidemic is so widespread is that nobody ever teaches what mind-blowing, passionate, connected love looks like... let alone how to make it happen!
This is what I've committed my life to! Helping you have truly fantastic love.
It's what I think about when I wake up in the morning. It's what I think about when I'm in the shower or while I drive to work. It's dominating my brain when I'm trying to fall asleep at night.
I'm either thinking about it or living it every waking hour.
So, if you're the kind of person who:
Wants to feel like every night is a slumber party with your partner.
Wants to feel appreciated, respected, and adored in your relationship.
Wants to be able to give your spouse everything you can to help them be a great partner to you.
Wants to get so good at partnership than you're practically considered to be a professional at love.
Is willing to push yourself outside your comfort zone and take action in pursuit of personal growth.
... then this is the place for you. You are my people.
Welcome to the team!
So, what's next?
Give me your email address, and I'll start sending you some of the most powerful, life-changing, relationship-strengthening secrets I've ever discovered: