What if I marry the wrong person?

I get emails asking me for relationship advice every day. It's one of my favorite things.

I love it when people get curious about how to make their relationship better, and are willing to ask for help. People who want to get better are my favorite kind of people.

The other day I got a message from a reader. She was obviously really upset.

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“I’m about to get married, and I’m having major anxiety! Is this normal? What if he’s not The One?! What if we end up getting divorced? What if I’m making the biggest mistake of my life?”

No doubt about it, getting married is the biggest decision most people will make in their lifetime. There’s a lot of pressure to get it right.

I think this girl’s questions are common and normal.

I gave her some advice... but before I tell you what I told her, I’d love to hear what YOU would say to someone in this situation. What advice would you give her? Leave your thoughts in the comments below.

I'll share my favorite answers with my answer to her tomorrow.


P.S. There's a new podcast episode out featuring Certified Sex Therapist, Kristin Hodson. We talk about pelvic floor health, and it was honestly surprising how much I didn't know about it. You should check it out.